Brief History of Bun

The care and feeding of the impossibly small

Random Crap Generator

The odds and sods of this and that

The Cancer Chronicles

An accounting of my father and his resident alien

The Chicken Saga

An accounting of my folly with fowl

The Ascent of Boy

Person rearing for amateurs

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How Quickly We Forget
July 18, 2009 – 11:31 am | 4 Comments
How Quickly We Forget

I forget, as Dad, my brother and a few others probably do, that we’ve been living with Dad’s “Big Reveal” for longer than some of you just coming around these parts. For that, I apologize. …

The Glossary of Dad
July 17, 2009 – 9:06 am | 2 Comments
The Glossary of Dad

271: The first number that hinted at more than a bladder infection found in his PSA blood work. It should be well below that: 4 or less. It’s pretty hard to square that circle, isn’t …

It Isn't All About You, You Know
July 15, 2009 – 9:21 pm | No Comment

My brother has been overlooked in this narrative of Dad’s cancer.  Not because he hasn’t featured prominently, but because I’m no good at exploiting more than one family member at a time.
But it’s his turn.
It …

Papa's Got a Brand New Bag
July 14, 2009 – 1:51 pm | No Comment

Ever since Dad got a catheter to ease up his pee-malfunction, he’s been of remarkably good cheer about it. He knows that the alternative is exploding like a lobbed water balloon and experiencing excruciating pain, …

Oof, that's gotta hurt
July 11, 2009 – 3:01 am | No Comment

That Dad is placid about this whole “Stage 4 Cancer” thing can’t be denied. But other things remain a little jarring, even now that we’ve lived with a catastrophic diagnosis for a few weeks.
We went …

Life changes in an instant
June 24, 2009 – 4:58 am | No Comment

You never know; the path to salvation may just be your own profoundly inappropriate sense of humor….

Ominous Rabbit
May 3, 2009 – 4:12 am | No Comment

New and unusual designs from a roving band of lagomorph gangsters.

The Light at the End
May 10, 2005 – 9:18 pm | No Comment
The Light at the End

Where does one begin? With the mortgage debacle, days to closing on the new house and learning that we may not be approved for one of our loans? Or maybe the movers dropping our furniture …

You Think You Know a Guy…
February 26, 2005 – 9:14 pm | No Comment

A few weeks ago, my husband decided to read the real estate listings so that we might live vicariously through others by visiting open houses. It’s a hobby we picked up after we bought our …

Open Letter to the Bun
February 4, 2005 – 8:00 pm | No Comment

Dear Bun,
LET GO OF MY LEG! Just for a minute or two. Just long enough for me to keep this scorching hot pan from sailing down on your head or at least long enough …

The Lovers, the Dreamers and Me
January 31, 2005 – 8:28 pm | No Comment
The Lovers, the Dreamers and Me

Back before I joined the club with the lowest standards for membership (“Just forget to wear your rubbers!”), I used to go out socially once in a while.
One night a few years ago, we went …

Called Back to the Mother Country
January 30, 2005 – 12:01 pm | No Comment

I actually remember the day I discovered MetaFilter. I was reading the now-defunct Brill’s Content and there was Mr. Haughey on the cover. I went to MetaFilter and a universe opened up to me. I …

Rain of Glass
January 26, 2005 – 12:32 pm | No Comment

The bun and I were playing on the sofa in front of the living room window when I looked at him and realized, “He’s my son.” While it seems utterly absurd that I would stumble …

Role Models
January 25, 2005 – 11:03 pm | No Comment

We got the bun a Fisher-Price zoo* for his birthday, complete with lion, seal, polar bear, elephant, a monkey who jumps up and down and a freakishly large blue bird which whistles “Hail to the …